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  1. BeatItUpRight

    BeatItUpRight Porn Star

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    My lady was suppose to come see me and instead she went out with her sister to some guys house and got wasted with him and his friends.... So I got mad went over ther and told her to leave with me, some asshole comes to the door and tells me "she don't have to go nowhere and you can't tell her to leave my house". I couldn't believe what I was hearing he had some balls talkin to me like that but, I didn't go off. I told him that she was my girl and that he could mind his own business or see me in the front yard. Were in the car and shes telling me I was wrong and im trying to control her and all this shit.

    My points
    1. If your suppose to come see me, then how the fuck you guna stand me up to go drink with some guys?
    2. If your my girl why the hell are you drinking with guys anyways?
    3. If I stood you up to go get drunk with some girls I didn't even know it would be world war 3, SO why shouldn't I be mad?
    4. I know how guys are, it's not that I don't trust her because I do. I don't trust the guys and I don't like her hanging around guys she knows that.

    Was I wrong??

    Also she was going to get her clit done and I told her I wanted to go. We get there and they didn't have a girl on staff so I said lets go to a different one or come back when they had a girl working. Shes like the guy can do it and I said no the fuck he can't, I don't want no guy touching your pussy but me, she gets all mad and storms out yelling.

    Again was I wrong?
     
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  2. nikki93

    nikki93 Baller's Girl

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    no, she wants to be with you but still have her fun. break up with her.

    you've got the worst taste in girls beat!!!

    but you were wrong with the clit thing, you should've let her just get it done. that was your confidence lacking in that one.
     
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  3. Empress Lainie

    Empress Lainie Ascended Ancient<br>Unexpected Woman In XNXX Heaven

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    BEAT, you have a totally different cultural background from some others. In your own culture, you are totally right. In mine it would be a different story. But one of the great things here, is that we should learn to tolerate where other people are coming from, so I personally sympathize with you, but I am not you and would have done differently.

    Actually any girl that I was interested in (when I was pretending to be a man) would not go out and drink with anyone anyway. But as I said its just a different culture, is mine better or is yours better, no, just different. (I also know there are tons of members who will disagree, and some who will agree.

    Peace be to you. I respect you and hope you will respect me.

    SHIRLEY
     
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  4. BeatItUpRight

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    I don't know whats been going on with her lately, she started talkin to my ex and I think my ex told her that she can push me to a certain point because thats what she used to do. I know im guna shut that shit down tho, im not guna have them two talking if shes going to start trying to test me.
     
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  5. baller16

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    doesn't seem over controlling to me cus you know she'd be just as pissed if it was the other way around

    the clit thing yea you should've just let her get it done unless the guy was trying to feel her up and shit cus he probably would've just been professional and did his job
     
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  6. BeatItUpRight

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    She thinks that guys just want to be friends and I try to tell her all the time guys don't call up girls and tell them to come get drunk for no reason.
     
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  7. nikki93

    nikki93 Baller's Girl

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    yup. i learned that one the hard way.
     
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  8. BeatItUpRight

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    I don't want her to find out the hard way because I know I would hurt somebody if something happened to her. I don't try to control her I just try to protect her. I know she grown and all but damn.
     
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  9. nikki93

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    yeah but like i said earlier... ive been that girl that still does what she wants in a relationship, no matter how many times my BF said it bothered him. why? because i wasn't completely into him. break up with her, and find someone that you can actually date, instead of arguing over which guys house she's going over to tonight.
     
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  10. Slick_100

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    here's the problem with girls hanging out with guys that are "FRIENDS"...guys wanna fuck girls...

    so no matter how innocent..smart..sweet..savy..loyal..experienced..mean nice...uninterested or whatever the girl is.....that guy "FRIEND" she's with..who's hangin with her and just being a nice guy....is thinking about bangin her..
     
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  11. Empress Lainie

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    The clit thing, I watched it done, and he has to keep it engorged to be able to do it, that means pinching and stroking it, sure its professional, doesn't mean he cant like doing it.
     
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  12. BeatItUpRight

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    We brake up but then she starts crying and shit
     
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  13. Sierra

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    Hi Beat, welcome back to the forum. Here's my take, if you trust her, you trust her....bottom line. You don't have to trust the people she's with. Did she tell you she wasn't coming over or did you find out that she blew you off to go to this party? Was it underhanded? A secret? As far as drinking "with other guys", she's still her own person and has a life independent of the two of you. That's how you grow. Would I be mad if you called and said you were going to a party? I wouldn't personally, especially if I trust you. As far as the clit piercing goes, I'd say you over-reacted. It would be just like you telling her she could only see a female gynecologist. The guy's a professional, he would've done his job. I hope this helps.
     
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  14. Slick_100

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    don't let them tears break you down...throw her a kleenex..as you walk away


    And Z..is there a clit piercing academy i could get some info on..i think i might already have some credit that would apply in the "keeping it engorged" class.
     
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  15. BeatItUpRight

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    She was suppose to come over but she was guna have her sister bring her because her DL is suspended. Her sister told me they had to make a stop and then she would drop her off. I guess her sister went over there and she started drinking so my lady started drinking, she knows I would have came and got her so thats no excuse. As far as trusting her I do but, she don't know if one of those guys could have put something in her drink. Shes only 5 foot tall and her sister ain't much bigger. What if they planned on raping them or something? She don't think like that tho so we clash.
     
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  16. baller16

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    well if she cries she cries

    if you are gonna be that annoyed in the relationship all the time and she's gonna keep doing the things that annoy you, you gotta get rid of her
     
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  17. BeatItUpRight

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    She don't do this all the time she just been trying to push me lately, im trying to be nice because im a big dude and when I get mad I tend to scare people and shes soft hearted
     
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  18. Perv79

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    Yeah the standing me up to drink with other guys would piss me off. If she is doing this she is likely already gone.

    You were over sensitive on the clit piercing in my opinion though.

    Even though every girl wants to maintain that guys are just friends and want to hang out, I can’t believe they are completely oblivious to the fact that these guys want to fuck them.
     
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  19. timduncan

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    I don't think you should be too worried. A lot of girls like a controlling, assertive guy. A lot of girls are just weird like that. They like a guy who can set limits and won't cave into her every demand. She probably was thinkin that you must really care about her if you did all that. If you hadn't done/said anything she probably would've felt like you didn't care enough about her. Girls like to feel protected.

    In my opinion, i think everything you did was understandable. You probably went a lil further than i would have, but then again i have been told i'm too laid back.

    No i'm not sexist blah blah blah but i'm sure a lot of the females are gonna blast away.
     
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  20. GothicSlut

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    I agree 100% here.

    I know that there are guys that want to have fool around with me despite the fact I have a boyfriend. Quite frankly, it's a confidence boost. The line is drawn though is if she's receptive to their advances.
     
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