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  1. captainmark266

    captainmark266 Porn Star

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    hi, my name is mark and my mom has 3 kinds of cervircal canver and my sis has a rare kind of cancer with 22 tumors and i am 29 and living with my dad because i got laid off from my job

    i was just wondering if anyone else was going throug this shit
    it is not that easy
     
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  2. prtndr

    prtndr Porn Star

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    There will always be someone in worse trouble than you are. You have my sympathy - that's a really tough situation - but you're young (I'm probably older than your father), and your time is coming. Hang in there.
     
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  3. Camel Toe

    Camel Toe Porn Star

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    Funny.
    I laughed.
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  4. Idokodi

    Idokodi Amateur

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    Did you just tell him that death is coming so wait it out a bit longer?

    I'm sorry about your family and their troubles, I don't know what else to say, sorry man...
     
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  5. Lioness

    Lioness A Fun Flirty Frisky Friendly Felion

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    Cancer is a bitch. If I were you, I'd check to see if they're from a cluster cause, like something in the water or environment. Do other people in the neighborhood have cancer, too? Plus, you should check yourself for any lumps often. It may be heredity.
     
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  6. SilverLycan

    SilverLycan The XnXX Alpha Wolf

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    Goddamn that is terrible.

    You're not alone in your suffering though. We all have problems. Our problems are different sure, but we all have problems. I'm having one fuck of a time getting help on account of my disability. My cousins are all going overseas for Christmas.

    I'm depressed as hell.

    So let's be depressed together, says I. Yes, if I'm going to be depressed, I'm going to be depressed with friends!

    EDIT: That's a very good point Lioness. Men should check their testicles and genital region for unusual growths at least once a month. I check mine twice a month just to make sure I don't end up with any surprises. That's also a good reason that I shave myself, it makes it easier to check myself.
     
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  7. lor280465

    lor280465 Porn Star

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    You have my sympathy, i do kind of know what you are going throu my father had cancer and died a few years ago and my mother has just been told she now has cancer, but at the end of the day you have got to get on trying to live the best you can it;s hard but what else can you do just make the best for you and your family and good luck
     
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  8. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    You are not going through a bunch of shit.

    But your Mom and Sis are, maybe you should not be feeling so sorry for yourself here.

    Suck it up and help the women in you life.
     
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  9. richief

    richief The Curly Wurly Man In XNXX Heaven

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    Yes I'm going through some shit right now, people who I've told on here are very sympathetic.
    But as tenguy said it's not you you're caught on the sidelines, just do what you can to help the ones you love because it's gonna get harder for them.
     
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  10. Anonomus

    Anonomus Sex Machine

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    You call family members suffering and dying a minor problem to be ignored, then?
    That was a really arsehole-ish thing to say...
     
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  11. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    How is his fixation on HIS problems, helping them?

    Read the posts, then comment, you are looking foolish here.
     
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  12. captainmark266

    captainmark266 Porn Star

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    ppl please dont argue,,,
    but thanks too all that have been through tough times
    i know that i am not the one dying(sorry i cant spell good)
    but it saidenss my heart too see my family going through this tough
    time
    i know some folks have it worse than me and i am pretty healthy
    i didnt start this thread as a petty party on my behath
    i just needed to vent
    i hope all are well

    mark

    o ya and to the person that said it was funny and they laughed

    FUCK OFF:twisted:
     
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  13. thee raver

    thee raver Porn Surfer

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    yeah my mom had stage one breast cancer. shes fine now but it still sucks balls. sorry man
     
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  14. formerly vodkanoj

    formerly vodkanoj Porn Star

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    That sucks man! Sorry to hear that!:(
     
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  15. ejls

    ejls Siren of the Seaway

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    Prayers being said for your family.
     
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  16. Yeehaarider

    Yeehaarider Porn Star

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    CaptainMark,

    Contact your local hospice. They can put you in touch with some truly excellent counselors who will tell you what you need to know and the best way to deal with your situation.
     
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  17. ExtremelyDisturbed

    ExtremelyDisturbed Sex Machine

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    I am sorry man. We'll pray for you and your family.
     
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  18. SexyLove381

    SexyLove381 Amateur

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    I tend to find that every person has some kind of bad situation in their life that they have to deal with. Just because it may not seem a big deal to us, it is to them. I'm sorry to hear about your family, and I hope that everything gets better for you.
     
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  19. billblondel344

    billblondel344 Porn Star

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    kind of funny :), leaving a sob story on a porn site, 3 kinds of cancer and a sister with 22 tumors hard to belive that something was not done eariler,,,,:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
     
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  20. captainmark266

    captainmark266 Porn Star

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    bill your a real asshole,,,eat shit dude,,,i was just trying
    to vent,,,may your pickles be green and tasty and your children deformed
     
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